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Inderstanding Gestational Diabetes

One  pre-natal test you’ll experience while pregnant is the Glucose test to see how your body handles high levels of sugar in your blood stream. You’ll be asked to drink a bottle of flavored sugar water . Blood tests are then  taken at different times to see what the sugars levels are. What is really being tested is the ability of Insulin, made by the pancreas, to carry glucose into cells for energy.

At around 28 weeks you’ll have this test.

What I want youto know is this can go away after you have the baby. It could also be an indicator of developing diabetes later in your life – but not always.

If you are diagnosed with this, it’s real important to follow a nutritional plan from your doctor or a registered dietitian (R.D). Gestational diabetes can be controlled by diet or medication depending on the severity. The concern is a larger baby at term.  Your doctor will monitor you throughout your pregnancy. If it’s controlled, there’s no reason to believe you couldn’t have a vaginal birth. However, Cesarean birth may be  a topic your physician  discusses with you.

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Inderstanding Gestational Diabetes

Exercise During Pregnancy

Follow the ACOG (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists ) Guidelines

Yes! Exercise is safe and GOOD for you and the pregnancy!

Read and learn here:

http://www.acog.org/publications/patient_education/bp119.cfm

Exercise During Pregnancy

Ladies -Preparing for Birth is Not Shopping

The priorities are all wrong.

The American culture of expectant women, their friends and families, are more concerned about registering for baby gifts at baby stores than the mother-to-be focusing on preparing for the real challenge – giving birth.

If you’re pregnant and reading this, there’s nothing sold at a baby store to prepare you emotionally and physically for the birth of another, tiny human being. Yet huge amounts of money and time are spent on baby’s nursery before baby is even born.  When at the first few months of life, all baby really needs is your love, shelter, clothing, food – and a car seat (by law)’

More time and money is invested in unnecessary merchandise for baby than on yourself. Think about it.  Right now, look around your home. Go to your baby’s room, what’s in there? Make a list of the items then figure out what the financial total is. How much of that stuff will you, or not, use?

Do you need all those things for baby? No. Will your baby know the difference between Winnie the Pooh verses Beatrice Potter nursery decor? No. Only YOU will. Baby won’t even remember it.

How many unexciting gifts will you get at baby showers (you’ll most likely have two) that you’ll never use?

Think about this instead: How much time and money could you spend on yourself if you slowed down, or stopped, the baby item buying until baby is actually in your arms? This is really a better plan because you’ll really know what you’ll need and make wiser purchases, and maybe even save some money!

Here’s a new perspective for preparing for one, birth, and second, baby.

Preparing for Birth

Time frame: nine months.

Invest in:

  • Midwife
  • Doula ( non-medical assistance during the birth)
  • YMCA membership
  • Prenatal yoga, swimming, low impact exercising
  • Body massages appropriate for pregnant women
  • Training in relaxation classes that last several weeks to months (meditation, hypnosis
  • Get a “birth” ball
  • Visit with a prenatal nutritionist
  • Detox your home of harmful chemicals, replace with toxic free
  • Learn about “greening” your personal products for you and baby –  read product labels
  • Spend time DAILY relaxing
  • Listen to calm music
  • Journal to decrease stress
  • Have sex (if okay with care provider)
  • Take a childbirth class – out of the hospital if you can. Do NOT take a one day “crash” course
  • Buy clothes as you need them that make you feel good during your pregnancy
  • Get a Birth Coach. A Birth Coach is someone who helps you through emotional times, your “birth mindset” during your pregnancy and provides childbirth education as well.
  • Avoid reading or watching ANY TV/movie/video that makes you anxious or nervous
  • Spend quality time with your partner
  • Read books on parenting and child development
  • Be selfish – invest in yourself
  • Learn, know, practice skills for labor: breathing, positions, coping skills, months before your due date
  • Learn how your body works. It will birth better than your mind (think about that one)
  • Enjoy your pregnancy as best you can. Discomforts are TEMPORARY. This will only happen to you once, twice, or a few times in your life.
  • You should pamper yourself throughout your pregnancy right up to the day you gave birth

As you can see by the list, mom-to-be, the focus should be on you and preparing your body and mind for birth. Baby comes later.

Preparing for Baby

  • Purchase a newborn outfit to bring baby home in
  • Purchase a car seat
  • Get a bassinette. Baby can sleep in one for up to five – six months near your bed. Then transfer to crib if that’s your plan.
  • Bassinette bedding, sheets, water-proof pads
  • Breastfeeding? Money saver!
  • Bottle feeding – you’ll know what to do with help from your pediatrician
  • Depending on the season purchase clothing as baby needs them. They grow so fast and you won’t use half the clothes you get from baby showers.
  • NO stuffed animals in the crib/bassinette, NO bumpers, NO loose blankets
  • Purchase diapers as you need them

For the first three months all babies do is sleep, eat and poop – that’s it! They become more alert and aware after that. The first year of growth is really, really amazing, and it goes fast– so enjoy it.

Baby Shower Gift Ideas

Ask for these instead

  • Friends/family chip in for a: doula, gym membership (with a pool), prenatal yoga class, relaxation classes, spa massages, mini vacation for two after baby is born,  money to open baby bank account, basic baby equipment (bassinette, crib, car seat, etc.)
  • Gift certificates to: woman’s (not baby) clothing store, music, massages, classes, childbirth classes, green products, house cleaner, post partum doula, parenting books, special dinner for two, “beauty” days

So. What do you think of this article?

Let me know.  If you have questions or comments, I would love to hear them.

Thinking of you,

Lely Federici

Ladies -Preparing for Birth is Not Shopping

3 Mistakes Expectant Women Make

Just like any other major life event, your wedding, buying a home, or having a baby, planning is always part of it.  Leaving things to the last minute is never a good idea because you can miss important information, or hear yourself saying “I wish I had known this before …”

 Here are three mistakes expectant women make when it comes to having a baby. Don’t be one of them:

 1. Lack of planning. The last month of pregnancy is not the time to take a childbirth class. Especially if you’re due in three weeks!  Sometimes classes held in hospitals fill up quickly and you can’t enroll. So where do you go? You just may miss taking any class because time is running out. A childbirth class can be four to twelve weeks long depending on the program.

2.  Taking a one day “crash course” childbirth class. Even though it’s popular to do, you’re cheating yourself by not allowing the time needed to prepare for labor and birth and have the time to practice the skills you learn to manage labor. You do have lots of time to forget everything you learn though!

3.  Not researching options early in pregnancy. Many women think that a hospital birth is their only option. Not true. Some women dislike their doctor for whatever reason and think they can’t switch to another physician or midwife.  They can. If done early in the pregnancy. If you don’t research your options and what’s available to you at your birthing facility, what your insurance covers, Doula programs, etc., you may miss out on important information you can use.

 Avoid these common mistakes during your pregnancy. You’ll feel more confident going into the birthing and parenting experience because you educated yourself well and planned ahead to be ready for the big day!

3 Mistakes Expectant Women Make

What Athletes and Pregnant Women Have in Common

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What do athletes and pregnant women have in common? Both anticipate an event that will be challenging emotionally and physically, but, one that will be extremely rewarding at the finish line. 

 

First let’s look at what athletes do.

 

Athletes train for an event. They are known to employ coaches to help build their “mindset” for recognizing past accomplishments, and building confidence in their strengths, talents, and abilities. They learn to trust and believe in their capabilities. Athletes use techniques such as visualization to “see” themselves doing their training perfectly, winning, succeeding in their goals, and celebrating their accomplishment.  Athletes train physically for hours, for days, weeks, and months to be in “shape”, while increasing endurance, stamina, and be physically fit for the competition. Athletes eat well for strength, get enough rest, and stay well hydrated.

 Let’s recap. Athletes:

 1. have coaches for emotional support

2. build positive “can do” attitudes and visualize success

3. learn to trust and believe in their skills and strengths

4. practice, practice, practice

5. take care of their body by eating well

6. prepare for the event

 Pregnant women have a lot in common with athletes. They know a physical and emotional challenge is coming – the birth of their baby. They know they need to eat well because they are “building” a baby. They prepare for birth by enrolling in childbirth classes. They enlist the support of family members and their partner.  Some women learn visualization techniques to prepare for birth.

 The difference of course is athletes are usually not pregnant! But what if pregnant women started developing an athletic point of view for preparing for birth? If they did, it might look something like this:

 From the first day a woman finds out she’s pregnant she goes into “training” for pregnancy and birth doing the following:

1. finds a healthcare provider – a midwife or doctor

2. starts an exercise program appropriate for pregnancy: swimming, walking, etc. to build physical strength, stamina, and endurance and does it daily. Health care provider approves program

3. hires a birth coach, Doula, or builds a strong, positive, support group

4. enrolls immediately in a relaxation program and uses it throughout the pregnancy. For example, pre-natal yoga

5. learns how to meditate daily to develop a “mindset” for birth, using birth affirmations, and positive visualizations

6. learns to trust her personal strengths and abilities based on past challenges and successes

7. eats healthy for “building a baby” not eating for two, takes prenatal vitamins, maybe sees a nutritionist

8, researches childbirth education classes and takes the one that meets her values and interests

9. learns about pregnancy changes of the body and fetal development

10. reads books on parenting

11. accepts pregnancy and birth as normal events in life

12. focuses on her own pregnancy experiences, turns off the TV, doesn’t listen to negative stories about birth

13. receives and celebrates her “prize” at the finish line – her baby

 Pregnancy “training” is a great way to prepare for birth from day one. Waiting until the last few months to prepare can add stress to the experience. Starting from day one creates time to “grow” with the pregnancy emotionally. Time is needed to discover methods of relaxation and breathing for labor that work the best for the physical challenge of birth. More important, with  time and preparation you can have the kind of birth and experience you want.

 Be a pregnancy “athlete”! The training is worth it.

 Lesly :-)

What Athletes and Pregnant Women Have in Common

Living on Planet Pregnancy – Part 2

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 Living on Planet Pregnancy for nine months can be overwhelming. Once you find out you’re pregnant you immediately think that someone will guide you through this new territory, tell you what to do, where to go, find what you need and when. Your health care provider in many ways is a guide throughout your pregnancy. However, many times they just don’t have the time to spend with you to answer all your questions or give you the emotional reassurance you need. 

 What to do, right? Well, here’s a thought – pregnancy, from the very first day, is really the beginning of parenting. It’s a great time to hone your skills in planning, decision making, knowing your options, and taking action during the next nine months. When you baby arrives you’ll be using these skills even more. So use this time well because nine months goes fast! Don’t wait until the last minute to educate and prepare yourself for baby.

 1. Research your pregnancy and birth options from your point of view.  Meaning, (although challenging) follow your own interests and learn about them, don’t be swayed by what other people think you should do. Build self-reliance based on your own opinions and values. Also, self–reliance leads to resourcefulness in problem solving, and getting the information you need.  The more informed you are, the better decisions you’ll make during your pregnancy and afterwards.   

 2. Choose to see a Midwife if you can. They have a different model of care when it comes to pregnant women and birth. They are safe, well trained, and many Obstetricians have them on staff. Midwives believe in the natural process of pregnancy and birth and not likely to do a lot of medical interventions.

 3. Trust your “gut”.  You may be anxious about birth down the road, but now is a great time to learn and practice how to trust your natural instincts. Intuition is a key element during pregnancy, labor, birth, even parenting.  The sooner you develop this skill, the better you’ll respond physically and emotionally  to this exciting life changing event.

 4. Join a pregnancy support group. There’s nothing like a bunch of happy pregnant bellies to share with!

Lesly :-)

Living on Planet Pregnancy – Part 2

Living on Planet Pregnancy – Part 1

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October 4, 209

 Being pregnant may feel like you’re temporarily living on another “planet”.  It’s an experience totally unfamiliar to you, yet familiar to hundreds of thousands of other women around the world. The first pregnancy is always as mysterious as it is perplexing. And for most expectant women, It’s a huge gift all wrapped up in a time span of nine months.

 For nine months your pregnancy is rich with unknowns begging questions from you to your health care provider, friends, and family members who understand and may have experienced this journey before you. They know what to expect, right? And everyone has an answer for you too, right? Although some comfort may be found in their responses, the truth is, your pregnancy is as unique as you, incredibly personal, and unlike any one else’s, why?

 It’s simple. There’s no one in this world like you.

 So if living in a land of unknowns, or on “planet” Pregnancy for nine months is exasperating yet exciting, how can you be, feel, and enjoy your pregnancy while others around you may treat, speak, and behave differently — just because you are pregnant? Here are some ideas:

 1. Celebrate the fact that you are an amazingly unique individual! No one can do or think the way you do. You and your pregnancy are special, pamper yourself.

 2. Your pregnancy is not an “it” or a “thing” it’s part of you. You are nurturing and caressing your baby, sharing your body to provide what he or she needs for healthy development — love and nutrients.  Eat well and y bond early with baby by playing music, sing lullabies, touch your belly often, indulge in a relaxation class like prenatal yoga.

 3. What ever the circumstance, accept the pregnancy and do this as soon as you find out you are. If the circumstances surrounding the pregnancy were traumatic, are problematic, find a professional therapist, or coach to work through it.  Emotional support is important during this time. The happier you are about your pregnancy the better your experience will be.

 4. Start learning from day one about your body’s normal physical responses to pregnancy, and normal development of your baby. This will raise your comfort level. Make a list of questions and ask one or two each time you see your doctor or midwife.  Don’t go on the internet pregnancy chat groups to ask. You won’t get the answer you want or need, plus you’ll read a lot of emotional material that may make you nervous.  Always find your information from credible sources not hear-say or word of mouth.

Lesly :-)

Living on Planet Pregnancy – Part 1

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